Spiritual Romance Under The Northern Lights
Do you want to write romantic love letters to your sweetheart but not know how to start? Romantic messages can increase the passion between partners in a way nothing else can match. We requested the opinions of a hundred relationship experts on how to make love letters as romantic as possible. Their advice comes down to a few simple ideas that anyone can follow.
The number one tip from sex experts to the inspired romance writer is to "just be yourself". In other words, tell your partner how your feel in your own words, using your own style. Avoid playing a role, or using overly sappy sentimentality. Remember, your partner wants to hear from you, not someone else. After all, it is you who your partner fell in love with.
Be specific : most experts polled stressed that people learning to write romantic love letters to focus on familiar specific things when writing. Don't be vague, say what you mean and what you feel and what you want. Be specific in the details.
Be passionate: many people have trouble truly expressing their passion for another human being. One prominent sex expert explains it this way: "most of us are trained to be repressed. We are so scared to show our true, burning, passion, because it is not accepted in our society." When writing a romantic letter, it is time to banish all repression, shame, and fear.
True, passionate love, one of the most beautiful expressions of emotion in the world, is not just about platonic romance, candy and teddy bears. When writing romantic love letters, be erotic, be sensual, and don't instinctively feel you must censor yourself. Reach inside your inner lover, find your pit of burning sexual desire, and let it cascade through your pages like water spilling over a dam.
Include if you can in your envelope an item or two signifying passion, romance and happy times together. Perhaps a lipstick kiss, rose petals, a fragrance, a photograph of a special occasion together, or a heart-shaped candy will remind your loved one of romantic memories, inspire ideas, and spark passion.
Have you ever wanted to write romantic love letters to your spouse or sweetheart? Are you seeking to increase the intimacy and passion in your relationship in a way that only romantic messages can accomplish? Well, read on -- we asked 100 of the top experts to share their tips about romantic love letters. Good examples include the lipstick print of a kiss, rose petals, or some other object that reminds your partner of a precious shared memory: romantic memories can be stimulated by including a picture of the two of you from some special time together.
Published September 28th, 2007
Filed in Women